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HT to Ryan over at UthPastor. Ryan is the founder of www.pastor2youth.com. He is a good egg, even if he is a Presbyterian! LOL.
A blog by Independent Fundamental Baptist Youth Pastors. A place to discuss and ask the hard questions truthfully.
Yeah, yeah, haven't posted here in a while, don't hate me for that please.
Recently a friend of mine left our church and became the pastor of Open Door Baptist Church about 20 minutes away. He left on good grounds and I really think that God took him there. However, in our church he has about 15 relatives. Recently we've all been noticing that they're not at church on Sunday nights or Wednesday nights. We found out it's because they're all going over to my friend's new church. They said at the very beginning they were not going to go over there. The people at the new church requested that no one follow my friend over there and give him a year to get settled in. However, they are going and are now talking about joining. [The truth is, my friend doesn't want them to join because he thinks they won't recognize him as "pastor". Which, the family doesn't even recognize my pastor (their brother/uncle/etc.) as pastor.] I know it's hard when someone you love goes to another church or state or country. But is it the right reason to change churches? I was always told that the right reason to leave is if wrong doctrine is taught. They've been talking for several years on leaving, but haven't. I personally think they are using this as a way to get out of the church, but that's just me. (By the way... one person who's following him and missing 2 out of 3 weekly services is a deacon in our church and another is our Sunday school superintendant and 4 of them are choir members.) If they leave, they leave. Our church will not suffer because of their absence. God will give us new people, I know. So.... question... why do people leave? Is it right to leave to "help" someone in their new ministry?
I came across some people having a discussion the other day. They were talking about a church in Arkansas whose pastor is openly gay. This church takes the position that "gay is OK", for lack of a better way to put it. (Click here to see the church's website.) Obviously, this is an affront to what Scripture teaches, but that's not what they were discussing.
Last week on visitation I witnessed to several Catholics. At the end of our 2 hour visitation I ended up debating a Catholic guy for just over an hour, thus making visitation 3 hours that day (oh, no!). The conversation began with me asking if the guy (who's a youth director at a Catholic church) if he knew for sure if he was going to heaven. He said no and that no one could know. I asked him if I could show him a verse and he said sure. I took him to 1st John 5:13 and emphasized the "know" (just like how you know your name) and "have" (present tense). The guy seemed kind of awestruck for a second. Then, as most debates.. er... uh... conversations do, he changed the subject a few times, but we always made it back to salvation and the surity of it. I asked him how long forever, eternal, and everlasting were and he agreed they were forever, eternal and everlasting. Then I asked him, if 1st John 5:13 says saved people HAVE eternal life, how can you stop something that's eternal? Anyway.... the teen that was with me said that the conversation sounded like a Kent Hovind debate (www.drdino.com). I stumped the guy numerous times by continually going to the Bible (which, he said was God's inspired Word, but doesn't give us everything we need for living), but I couldn't convince him (not that you can when first talking to someone).